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Step right up ladies and gents!
[Blah, blah]: I was wrapping up two different posts; one for tonight, one for tomorrow when suddenly, I learned that a dear friend of mine had shoved (hard) her blog while it was standing on smooth, wet tile causing it to slam onto the floor, dead in a growing pool of its own blood.
Sad, truly.
‘Tis life, I suppose.
I don’t know what made me feel worse, reading about the events, or reading her remarkable cheerfulness about the whole thing.
It reminds me of the time when I was nineteen a few days after Christmas. I was in a very rural area with thick snow, miles from any nearby houses. I saw a small object in the road ahead of me as my car crept along the icy vein between unending snow-heaped farm fields.
It was a very young puppy. Weeks old, at the most.
I stopped my car and got out. I approached it and saw the blood pool. Its back legs were kicking, the front legs and head were not moving. What I saw next was quite grisly.
It was breathing, trying to get up. One eye was hanging out and blood was seeping out of the socket (no joke). When it saw me, it whimpered and got excited, trying to wag its tail. Obviously it was not going to make it.
It still had a red Christmas bow around its neck.
Two choices: walk away or… yeah.
So I broke its neck. I then dug a grave for it on the side of the road and buried it, climbed back into the car, drove off and cried.
And I remember how cheerful I tried sounding the rest of the day.
Truth was, there was nothing to be all that cheerful about.
So she killed her blog, all in an effort to improve her blog. Damn. We can fix this up in a jiffy.
You can help me fix this by:
Subscribing to her new feed by clicking here
Throwing her a link: http://throughtheillusion.com/ (for you bloggers), and
Adding her to your Technorati favorites by clicking here
Tell some friends. With a few backlinks, a few subscribers, and a bunch of “hellos”, we can revive this sucker.
In the coming days, I’ll go through my whole site and redirect the links I made to Hayden’s old blog url to her new one.
Added bonus:
You link to her blog, I link to your blog. If you do, let me know in the comments.
Gracias friends.
Hang in there Hayden
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wow, blog CPR. cool!
Jeremy Day´s last blog post..9 Easy Ways to Get a Life
I added her to my blogroll. Since I have the Better Blogroll plugin, which shows a random selection of 10 from my blogroll, her link might not show up initially but it’s on there.
TheAndySan´s last blog post..Help Me Get (And Give) Something For My Birthday & Christmas!!
@ Jeremy – Precisely,
“I think we’ve got a live one!”
@ TheAndySan – Thanks man!
Dereck, thank you so much. I never imagined anyone would go to bat for me like this. I think I love you. Got Manswers? has been replaced in my heart.
Hayden Tompkins´s last blog post..We Have Moved!
@ Hayden – AWESOME!
You’ve been one of my biggest fans since day one. Now, let’s just hope we can get enough people to help
Dereck,
That was a heartbreaking story. I actually read this post a couple of days ago, but I still can’t get over it.
Some days, I do wish if living didn’t involve this much heartbreak. I imagine one of the things I’ll feel when I die is a relief.
ari
Ari Koinuma´s last blog post..The 7 Keys to Breaking Bad Habits
@ Ari – There will be no relief for the dead
My action was to relieve the living, me. I’m the one who couldn’t stomach abandoning the poor creature.
@ Dereck – No problem!
TheAndySan´s last blog post..Blog Surveys – Stuck In A Cubicle With My Friend Death
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